Keep Calm and Believe

 

 

 

  

Everyone has someone who they believe in and look up too. I personally have a lot of people I believe in. The point is not about who you can believe in, but if you can believe in your-self. Believing is defined as an “Accept (something) as true; feel sure of the truth of.”

Many people say they believe in God for an example, but many don't know if they really believe in him or they just they are so that they will go to heaven and not hell. Most beliefs have to do with a religion or in someone; but that's not what believing in yourself is. It's more about see what you want and taking an act on how you feel about it and if that feeling is strong or not.

Having the right mind set is the first thing it takes to start believing. If you are a very negative person, it’s not that easy. For me I really have to convince myself that I can do something. I find something that can be so easy, hard. One reason why this is hard for some people might have to so with trust, not being positive and feeling less of a person. This effects a lot of the person’s performances inside and outside of school and relationships. One thing that O have struggled with is being a negative person towards myself. It has been one of those weakness that has hurt me mentally and it's not easy to just change it and make it better. It takes a lot to believe in yourself, it might for some people like me but not for most people.  

Believing in your values also plays a big role in believing in yourself. If you have strong values than you’re most likely to feel for strong about what you value and how you feel. For some people that haven’t felt that value means a lot to them, they are more likely to go along or not speak for themselves. I’m not trying to say that all people that have strong values will have a greater change of believing in themselves, because even people with strong values have a hard time believing. Psychologytoday.com say that most people are more likely to have a high change of believing in themselves that have strong values.

 

            Believing in yourself is more than just tell yourself something. That may be one of the process, but it’s not always effective. Having a good mindset and knowing who you are also helps you. Believing is more of a mental thing. If you believe in something it’s just another way to convince yourself of how strongly you feel about something.