The New Year is coming and we all
have our hopes to start fresh and new. But let’s face the facts;
we will be the same person when the ball drops. The thought of changing yourself
or should I say “your state of mind "to become what you think is
a better you. To me there is no good or bad in changing who you are,
if it’s for the better. I think that we all at once in our live felt that
we need to change who or what we were trying to be even if we didn't we had to
tell our self we need to change. Insight of the things we try to get to
change our self's, we should really be focusing on the inner person that
only you know. Here are some tips to
start off your New Year.
To
start off a better state of being you should always have that image in your
mind or write it down or even put it on your wall so that you can see it all
the time when you wake up so that it reminds you of what you are working on. I know
that’s the number one thing everyone has said about having a goal and working
on it but it really helps when you do those things. After put your goal or
whatever you may call it in your vision you should think about it, and ask you self
what you are doing to help you achieve this goal. One thing that helps me is,
when I have a goal I’m working on I always over what I did or need to do , to help
me achieve my goal before I go to sleep and when I wake up ,so that I know what
I need to work.
Always
surround yourself with positive people that will make you feel better about whom
you are and help you be a better person. I know this for a fact, I’m a very negative
person and I always put myself with positive people so that I know that I need
to be more positive. By doing this, it helps you be more yourself on your bad days.
You always need a support team. You don’t
even have to tell them that you are trying to be a better person; they are just
there to bring you up and make you feel better. I know that sounds like you are
using the person but you’re really not. Think of it as feeding off their positive
energy but you get what I mean.
Last
but not least stay committed! If you put your mind to anything you will be very
successful in achieving it and will feel ten times better than saying you
failed because you made excuses. I know that feel because I do it a lot, and to
tell you the true it’s not something to be proud of. Also have fun with whatever
goal you set for yourself and laugh at yourself if you make a silly mistake. I
love to laugh at the sill things I do because I know that makes me understand
my mistakes and builds self –confidents. I hope you all take one advice from
this blog and trying it out. One more thing...
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
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